Marsha Aizumi Obituary

Marsha (Ogino) Aizumi was a beloved wife, mother, educator, and activist, and a pillar of love, strength, and acceptance. Born on May 28, 1947, in Cleveland, Ohio, Marsha was known for her courage, integrity, and fierce love for her family, as well as the way she consistently showed up for others.

Marsha peacefully passed away on December 18, 2025, in Duarte, California.

She shared 53 wonderful years of marriage with her husband, Robert (Tad) Aizumi. Their life together was built on commitment, mutual respect, and standing side by side through change, challenge, and joy. From everyday moments to shared adventures, like disco dancing, they created a home grounded in care, honesty, and deep devotion to family.

Marsha was a devoted mother to her sons, Aiden and Stefen, a loving mother-in-law to Aiden’s wife Mary. She was a caring presence in the lives of those her children loved, including Stefen’s girlfriend, Catherin. Being a mother was one of her greatest sources of pride and purpose. She believed deeply in listening, learning, and loving fully, even when it required growth or courage.

Naturally funny and playful, Marsha brought warmth and light into the lives of those around her. She was always game for an adventure, loved to dance, especially disco, and never turned down something a sweet treat. Her humor, curiosity, and openness made people feel at ease and welcome.

Marsha’s advocacy grew from love and lived experience. She became a respected leader within LGBTQIA+ and Asian Pacific Islander communities, offering education, support, and hope to families navigating their own journeys. She was the founder of Okaeri and a co-founder of the PFLAG San Gabriel Valley Asian Pacific Islander Chapter, creating spaces rooted in compassion, understanding, and belonging.

She co-authored Two Spirits, One Heart, a memoir that shared her family’s journey navigating Aiden’s transition with honesty and heart, and continues to support parents, families, and allies learning how to accept and love more fully.

Marsha is survived by her husband, Robert Tadashi Aizumi; her son, Aiden, and his wife, Mary; and her son, Stefen, and his girlfriend, Cat. She is also remembered by extended family, chosen family, and a wide community of friends, colleagues, and loved ones whose lives were shaped by her kindness, courage, and care.

A public Celebration of Life will be held on January 31, 2026, at Centenary United Methodist Church at 11:00 AM. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in her memory to Okaeri (Little Tokyo Service Center) or PFLAG Pasadena, or PFLAG San Gabriel Valley Asian Pacific Islander.